Ikimenyetso cy’urukundo abahanga bavumbuye mu myitwarire y’umubiri

Abashakashatsi bagaragaje ko uburyo abantu babiri bahuza imigendekere y’imibiri yabo mu gihe baganira bushobora kuba bufite aho buhurira n’inyungu bafitiye umubano w’igihe kirekire. Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe n’abashakashatsi bo muri McMaster University bwibanze ku buryo abantu bahuza imigendekere y’imibiri yabo mu gihe bari kuganira, cyane cyane mu gihe cyo guhura bwa mbere. Abitabiriye ubushakashatsi bashyizwe muri gahunda ya speed dating, aho buri muntu yagiranaga ikiganiro cy’iminota mike n’abandi. Abashakashatsi bakoresheje ibikoresho byabafashaga gukurikirana uko imibiri yabo yagendaga inyeganyega, kugira ngo barebe niba hari aho imigendekere yabo ihurira. Nyuma y’ibiganiro, abitabiriye babajijwe niba bashaka kongera kubonana n’uwo bari baganiriye na we ndetse n’ubwoko bw’umubano bashobora kuba bifuza. Imibiri ishobora gutanga ibimenyetso Icyagaragaye ni uko abantu bafite imigendekere y’imibiri ijyana bashobora kuba bafite inyungu nyinshi mu gukomeza umubano w’igihe kirekire. Abashakashatsi bise iki kintu body sway coupling, bisobanuye uburyo imigendekere y’umubiri w’umuntu ishobora kujyana n’iy’uwo bari kumwe. Abahanga bavuga ko ibi bishobora kuba bifitanye isano n’uburyo abantu babasha kuvugana, kumvikana no guhuza imico. Iyo abantu bumva bisanzuye kandi bagashyikirana neza, imibiri yabo ishobora gutangira kwitwara mu buryo bufitanye isano. Icyakora, abashakashatsi bashimangira ko ibi atari gihamya y’urukundo. Ntabwo umuntu yakwemeza ko undi amukunda cyangwa amushaka mu rukundo ashingiye gusa ku buryo umubiri we unyeganyega. Umuziki na wo ushobora kugira uruhare Ubushakashatsi bwagerageje no kureba niba umuziki ushobora kugira uruhare mu guhuza imigendekere y’abantu. Abantu bumvaga umuziki ufite injyana ituma umuntu ashaka kunyeganyega bagaragaje ku kigero gito ubushake bwinshi bwo kongera guhura n’abo bari baganiriye na bo, ugereranyije n’abumvaga umuziki utuje. Ibi byatumye abashakashatsi batekereza ko umuziki ushobora gufasha abantu kumva barushijeho kwegerana, cyane cyane iyo utuma bahuza imigendekere yabo. N’umubiri ushobora kugaragaza uko wumva umuntu Ubundi bushakashatsi bwakozwe ku mibanire y’abantu na bwo bwagiye bwerekana ko imikorere y’umubiri, harimo impinduka z’umutima n’izindi reactions z’umubiri, ishobora kujyana hagati y’abantu bari mu gihe cyo guhura bwa mbere. Ibi bituma abahanga barushaho kwibaza ku ruhare rw’ibimenyetso bitavugwa mu kubaka umubano hagati y’abantu. Nubwo bimeze bityo, urukundo no gukururana ntibipimwa n’ikimenyetso kimwe. Uburyo abantu bavugana, uko bubahana, uko bumva mugenzi wabo n’uko bakomeza kubaka umubano na byo bifite uruhare runini. 🟨 WARUZIKO? Waruziko abantu babiri bashobora gutangira guhuza imigendekere y’imibiri yabo mu gihe baganira? Abashakashatsi bavuga ko uku guhuza imigendekere (interpersonal synchronization) bishobora gutanga amakuru ku buryo abantu babiri bavugana kandi bumvikana, ndetse ubushakashatsi bumwe bukaba bwarabonye isano hagati yabyo n’inyungu mu mubano w’igihe kirekire.

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